About the experience in: Scottish Highlands, United Kingdom
United Kingdom
She is a cruel, unreasonable person, and how she treats you will entirely depend on whether she likes you or not and whether you have the strength to resist here. To evade accountability, she will constantly interrogate you, make personal attacks, and frequently tell lies. Particularly if your English is poor, you would not want to explain to her at all. On the last day when I was leaving, she even deliberately took me to a nearby bus stand, and told me to wait at the wrong direction. If I would have believed her then I would have missed the only bus to that faraway train station.
over 2 years ago
CHARLOTTE replied
In response to the above which is not a true account of SiYi's stay that I am finding it hard to answer.
SiYi booked a 15 day stay here and from the moment she arrived I spent lots of time helping her to build up her confidence, providing training in housekeeping and trying to help her find suitable employment on her return to USA as she had no wish to go back to NY due to personal reasons and also her dislike for NY. We checked the internet together for job openings in other states which provided live in accommodation. We found a couple of possibilities which she was keen to explore. As she didn't feel confident enough to contact them herself I was prepared to do this on her behalf.
Her English speaking was not poor she just lacked self confidence, speaking so quietly and always looking down at her feet that myself, guests and friends could not hear her and were always asking her to repeat what she said. I had no issues with SiYi's work and she was a quick learner, another reason I was happy to help her move forward.
The drop off at the bus stop was at the opposite side of the road to where her bus was leaving from and I messaged this to her and even told her the colour of the bus stop and that she was on the wrong side of the road. I received a reply from her saying "Google says I am on the right side of the road!" I have the Whatsapp texts to substantiate this.
Personally I find her comments defamatory allegations, made perhaps by failing to understand the correct meaning of these words or by poor interpretations and poor translation services of words in context.
I suggest any future hosts carefully consider whether they should offer a place to SiYi and I am happy to be contacted for a reference if required.