Fernando replied
Hi Joe, I'll start at the end. Saying that you don't want to say something is saying it, but I'm not going to talk about perlocutionary acts or linguistics because it's not the place.
The bad vibe of the last day, when you left the day before without saying anything, is because I felt offended by a message from you and I already explained to you in the meeting that we all had what I felt. I once told you that "women see better what needs to be cleaned than men" is not entirely accurate. I told you that women (in general) see or detect dirt better than men (in general), it's not a matter of machismo, it's a matter of perception and consideration. Just as I tell you that people from Italy clean better than those from France in general (then each person is a world).
I'm sorry if you felt lonely, I invited you to every concert at the bar and when we went out partying all the staff with the guests also invited you to come... you're the one who never wanted to.
And finally, the appreciation of my personal life, outside my work hours and the stay of the guests, is mine and I can do what I want. Just like your single colleagues, they also became intimate with some guest or with colleagues from other hostels...
From here I invite everyone who reads this review to read the review that we have made of you because there are only nice words and reviews of your positive points, because I think that to say something bad about someone it is better not to say anything.: There were things outside the position that could be done because the materials were there, like making a mural in the well, or in the bedroom, or retouching the bumps on the walls with paint that when you spent 2 hours on turn with your arms crossed you could have done but it was better to be reading, watching a series in the bedroom or talking on the phone. As I told you, I am a permissive person and very little strict, but when my limits are exceeded, all my friendship is lost. Making veiled innuendos about inappropriate things is inappropriate in itself.