Monika respondido
Tara, I’m a bit surprised and disappointed with this review.
You wrote me around 6 am that you eye was swallowed (not in size of a golf ball), but you never complained about pain, blood, redness (sign of infection). So, I suggested that we call doctor at 7 am, and by 8 am, we were already at the doctor’s office. I went with you, filled out the paperwork, and did everything to ensure your well-beeing. I had to go back to work, and when you finished with visit by doctor I came to pick you up. You agreed to this agreement before I left the doctor’s office. When I picked you up (around 12 am) your eye was more then 50% better.
You looked happy all the time on our farm, enjoying your stay, especially spending time with animals. Your work was really less demanding and also less efficient in comparison to others, but I gave you the opportunity anyway to improve yourself (with encourageing you, showing you the right way), becouse of your short visit. But if you were looking for volunteering on a farm, that includes bees, spiders and other bugs on the field and the work needs to be done even if they cross you path. And to follow recommendations how some work needs to be done, not just to wait when we will finish with work with which you are not used to. Helping on a farm doesn’t mean that you do something on your way, but on a way that is efficient for the farm and to show respect to the host and other volunteers.
Sometimes we need to go out of our comfort zone, and to do/give something for/to others not just to take. I allways arranged you free transport to/from station even on your days off and when your return was really late in the evening.
When we first meet I told you that I expect you to be honest with me. I know that I was doing my best for you to feel good, and you gave me the feeling that you are very satisfied here and you also told me that you have/had great time and never gave me a filling that you had bad time here.
I understand that this is a new generation of young people, but I was doing my best to make you feel comfortable. However, there are boundaries, and sometimes, we can cannot adjust everything to your pace. Consider beeing more responsable, respectable and adaptable for you future exchanges.