Hirin respondeu
During your stay at my place, you were very difficult to host.
I felt that our relationship was strained, however, despite my attempts to try and make the situation more comfortable, you made little effort to try and communicate with me or try and understand each other better. I am still improving my English and was very offended when you purposely ignored my attempts to talk, even making fun of me when I made mistakes in English.
I try and keep the work light and not overbearing, however, you put in very little effort, and to such an extent you made things harder for me. I am very upset you felt harassed and found this experience uncomfortable as it was never my intent, what I want is for people to enjoy coming to stay with me and exploring a unique side to Japan and the Japanese countryside. I think that blaming me for your discomfort is unfair as you were very difficult, you had unreasonably high expectations, that I could not fulfill, and put me in multiple hard situations、even straining my relationship with people in the community.