Steve respondido
Maybe you need to look at why we didn’t get along. We are popular and experienced hosts who normally do not have a problem getting along with our volunteers.
On your first evening, we arrange a BBQ for us all to get to know each other and you didn’t even join in but sat away from us. No interest in collaboration.
I was not happy with you, as you had no idea how to behave in a guest house, and you would not listen. Shouting & screaming with laughter to each other when guests were resting nearby, as an example.
When it was necessary to mention these issues, you took absolutely no responsibility at all, only sulked. I was not gas lighting you; I was direct and honest. You also took zero responsibility to discuss these issues and to commit to your original agreements.
As for washing up, we have a dishwasher and volunteers are asked to clear up, when we cook for everyone. You had three days of lunch & dinner specially cooked for you (as vegetarians and we are not) but no offer of help and not one single thank you. Why on earth would you consider that a hardship and expect something different.
As for privacy, we would never just come into the room, always knock if we need to access the attic.
You mention about texting other volunteers & making accusations of gas lighting, which shows how immature you are.